The dream of every man is to fulfill all his heart desires as each day passes by, so as to secure the future. As a man, you want to be an authority. You like to own your own car, a house with a beautiful garden. Men prepares a whole lot for the future, and this slightly differentiate them from women. All these takes time but are very feasible. How going a bit further to say, it is ‘easily’ achievable – But how?
It gets to a moment in life when you have to start your own family – getting married and raising your own children. This is where a woman is needed to help you attain even greater goals.
Behind the success of any man, there is a sacrifices and contribution from a woman. Spotting a good woman to help make a man’s dream and numerous wishes come true is where the search lies.
It is good to know you have a woman in your life right now. You have probably achieved the first stage. Take your time and study your woman for some time. If she has these 10 attributes, strive with everything legally possible within your reach to make her yours forever.
Below are 10 unique ways to spot wife material. These are inner qualities any prospective wife must possess.
1. She is a motivator
Even while this could be tricky to notice, you would realize the energy to perform difficult task comes into you when she’s around. This is beyond your understanding though, and you may not be able to compose the right words to make people understand. Somehow, her presence motivates you. She’s is the kind of woman to keep.
2. She doesn’t need you ‘so much’
Not like it seems. Everybody likes to feel needed by their partner, but it is more important to have the kind of woman who believes she has her own aspirations and goals which must be fulfilled. The kind of woman who loves to be with you, not because she needs a person to fill her boring moments, but because you are special to her.
3. You still maintain your original version when you’re with her
It’s a man thing to always want to form what they ain’t, especially when their partner is around. When she’s around you, you are happy about yourself and whom you are. You feel she’s so awesome that you need not hide your true identity around her. If you simply feel at ease when you’re with her, just make sure you don’t lose her because you’ve just spotted a wife material.
4. She fights fair
Every relationship needs to undergo some amount of tests, before finally deciding on a long-term commitment. If she understands your point of views during an argument, fights fairly, easy to apologise and comes into terms with you, then she is a woman who would give great meanings to your future.
5. She sacrifice her time for the things you love
It doesn’t matter whether she likes to attend birthday parties or not, but she agrees to come along because she knows it’s your thing to attend such parties. If your woman is willing to sacrifice her time to the things you love doing at the detriment of hers, she’s one woman you should hold on to.
6. She’s sincere, even if it hurts
Integrity runs in her veins as she periodically strive to make sure you are not hurt, even when she had to admit a lot for your sake. This can be painful on her part, but she wants to make sure she secure the trust you had for her.
7. There’s mutual understanding between your family and her
Most especially in this part of the world, a relationship or marriage is not complete until members of the family signifies their support for the union. If your family likes your woman, and she’s got great regards for them in return, you are in luck.
8. She treats people with equal respect
A bad woman can only fake characters for a short period of time. As time goes on, her true identity pops up like the Christmas balloon for the whole world to see. If you have this girlfriend who would treat everyone with respect, then she’s a pleasant person not worth losing.
9. Her strengths, your weakness – and vice versa
You both will make an awesome team if your ideas and views are somewhat different. You may have phobia for talking while she is the type who likes to listen. This would build a great team.
10. She shares same values with you
It is only normal that you and her are different in some ways, but this irrespectively, you realise you both share the same value. You both have different plans but with same focus and goals.
